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The Efficacy of Couples Therapy

Vanesa Art • Aug 05, 2024
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The Efficacy of Couples Therapy

Couples therapy, especially Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), has been proven to be highly effective in improving relationship satisfaction and emotional connection. EFT is backed by extensive research, showing a success rate of 70-75%, with up to 90% of couples reporting significant improvements in their relationships (Spengler et al., 2024). This approach focuses on understanding and reshaping emotional responses, leading to lasting positive changes.


What Makes EFT So Effective?

EFT helps partners recognize and express their emotional needs and fosters a secure bond. This approach not only addresses surface-level issues but also targets the underlying emotional dynamics that contribute to relationship distress. I hear this a lot, “we’ve never experienced counseling like this before”. We get to the heart of the matter in EFT (“EFT,” n.d.). By focusing on these emotional responses, EFT creates a foundation for long-term changes in the relationship.


Real-World Impact

Couples who engage in EFT often experience a deeper emotional connection and improved communication. They learn to navigate conflicts more effectively and develop a stronger sense of trust and intimacy. The positive changes achieved through EFT are not just temporary but lead to lasting improvements in the relationship.


Why Choose EFT?

If you're seeking to strengthen your relationship and enhance your emotional connection, EFT is the right choice for you. EFT is a gold standard approach defined by the American Psychological Association ((EFT Research - ICEEFT, 2021). We are trained in this evidence-based approach and are dedicated to helping you and your partner achieve a happier, healthier relationship. Book a session today and start your journey towards a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

EFT. (n.d.). Dr. Lisa J. Palmer. Retrieved August 5, 2024, from https://drlisapalmerolsen.com/eft/

EFT Research—ICEEFT. (2021, November 29). https://iceeft.com/eft-research-3/

Spengler, P. M., Lee, N. A., Wiebe, S. A., & Wittenborn, A. K. (2024). A comprehensive meta-analysis on the efficacy of emotionally focused couple therapy. Couple and Family Psychology: Research and Practice, 13(2), 81–99. https://doi.org/10.1037/cfp0000233


By James Art 17 Aug, 2024
How to Use Insurance with Out-of-Network Therapists Starting therapy can be an important step toward better mental health, but finding the right therapist can be challenging—especially if the therapist you want to work with isn’t in your insurance company’s “network.” This can be frustrating when you want to use your insurance benefits to help cover therapy costs. In this article, we’ll explain what it means to be “out of network” and how you might still be able to use your insurance to pay for therapy. What’s the Difference Between In-Network and Out-of-Network Providers? In-Network Providers In-network therapists have agreements with insurance companies to provide services at a set rate. When you see an in-network therapist, you typically pay only your copay at the time of your appointment, and the therapist bills the insurance company for the remainder of the cost. Out-of-Network Providers Out-of-network therapists do not have agreements with insurance companies. This means that you will need to pay the full cost of the session upfront. However, you may still be able to get reimbursed for some of these costs by your insurance company. Can I Still Use My Insurance Benefits with an Out-of-Network Therapist? In many cases, yes, you can. While your insurance might not cover the cost upfront, it may reimburse you for a portion of the expenses if your plan includes out-of-network benefits. Here’s how to find out: 1. Check if Your Plan Covers Out-of-Network Costs Your insurance plan might state something like “covers 80% of out-of-network costs” or “after deductible is met, will cover 60% of out-of-network costs.” This means you may get reimbursed for a portion of what you pay. 2. Check Your Deductible A deductible is the amount you need to pay for healthcare services before your insurance starts reimbursing you. Deductibles can vary widely—some people have a $0 deductible, while others might have a much higher one. If you have a high deductible, you can submit your therapy receipts to count toward it. Once your deductible is met, you can start receiving reimbursements. What Does This Mean in Simple Terms? Navigating insurance can be confusing, but understanding your plan can help you determine which therapists you can work with and how much it will cost. Here are two common scenarios that might help clarify how this works: Example 1: No Deductible with Out-of-Network Benefits Let’s say you have an insurance plan with no deductible and it covers 80% of out-of-network costs. You see a therapist who charges $120 per session. You pay $120 at the time of your appointment, and your therapist gives you a receipt called a “superbill.” You then submit the superbill to your insurance company, and they reimburse you $96 (80% of $120). This means your out-of-pocket cost was only $24, which might be similar to or less than your usual copay. Example 2: High Deductible with Out-of-Network Benefits Now, consider a plan with a $5,000 deductible that covers 60% of out-of-network costs after the deductible is met. You’ve already spent $4,500 on medical care this year, so you have $500 left to meet your deductible. You see a therapist who charges $100 per session. After five sessions, you’ve met your deductible, and for the sixth session, your insurance company reimburses you $60 (60% of $100), leaving you with a $40 out-of-pocket cost. What If My Plan Doesn’t Cover Out-of-Network Therapists? If your plan doesn’t offer out-of-network reimbursement, it might seem like you’re limited to a short list of in-network providers. However, many people successfully appeal this by demonstrating that their insurance network doesn’t include therapists who meet their specific needs. For instance, you might be seeking trauma therapy using EMDR with a therapist who is LGBTQ+ affirming. If your insurer’s network doesn’t include therapists who specialize in both areas, you can explain this to your insurance company and request reimbursement for working with a specific out-of-network therapist who meets your needs. Many clients have had success taking this approach. Why Choose an Out-of-Network Therapist? There are several reasons why you might opt to see an out-of-network therapist, including: A higher level of specialization. Greater availability for new clients. Privacy concerns, as in-network therapists are required to share treatment notes with the insurer. Flexibility, since in-network therapists may need insurance approval for the number of sessions you receive. A strong preference for a particular therapist. How Do I Submit My Out-of-Network Costs to My Insurance Company? To get reimbursed for out-of-network therapy, you’ll need to submit a superbill—a detailed receipt your therapist provides. Before you submit the superbill or see an out-of-network therapist make sure your insurance provider does provide reimbursements or you may be required to pay fully out of pocket for these services. The superbill typically includes: The date and cost of your appointment. Your therapist’s name, license number, NPI number, and practice EIN (tax ID). A diagnosis code, if applicable. A CPT code that describes the service you received (e.g., individual therapy, couples therapy). Once you have the superbill, log into your insurance company’s website, find the “claims” section, and upload the superbill for reimbursement. You can track the claim to see if it’s applied to your deductible or if reimbursement has been sent. If dealing with insurance companies feels overwhelming, there are services available that can handle this process for you. These services will submit the superbill, follow up with the insurance company, and ensure you get reimbursed without the hassle.  Navigating out-of-network insurance benefits can seem daunting, but with the right information, you can make informed decisions about your care and take full advantage of your insurance benefits.
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By Vanesa Art 06 Aug, 2024
Building Intimacy and Bonding Intimacy is the cornerstone of a healthy and satisfying relationship. Our lives may change, but our physical bodies are designed to keep having sex all throughout our life. Our therapy sessions are designed to help you and your partner build and deepen your emotional AND physical intimacy. We create a safe space where you can explore your feelings, enhance communication, and reconnect on a deeper level. Creating a Safe Space Our therapists provide a non-judgmental environment where you can freely discuss your feelings and concerns. A lot of people don’t ask sex questions because they don’t have a place to ask (Ayalon et al., 2019) . This safe space is crucial for exploring and addressing emotional needs, leading to better understanding and empathy between partners. Enhancing Emotional Intimacy Emotional intimacy involves sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings with your partner. We help you address emotional needs, experience new ways to communicate, and build trust. This process fosters healing and strengthens your emotional bond. Improving Physical Intimacy Physical intimacy is an important aspect of a healthy relationship. We guide you in enhancing physical connection through communication, understanding, and shared experiences. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark or navigate physical intimacy challenges, we are here to support your journey towards a stronger bond. Your Journey Towards a Stronger Bond Building intimacy takes time and effort, but the rewards are well worth it. By working with our experienced therapists, you and your partner can achieve a deeper, more satisfying connection. Let us help you strengthen your bond and enhance your relationship. Book a session today and start building a stronger, more intimate relationship.  Ayalon, L., Gewirtz-Meydan, A., & Levkovich, I. (2019). Older Adults’ Coping Strategies With Changes in Sexual Functioning: Results From Qualitative Research. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 16(1), 52–60. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2018.11.011
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